There are no secrets to love prep your child. It is the result of allowing love.
Because it is your responsibility to love, you get to choose what you experience with your child. You get to consciously choose fun with loving your child into an experience that prepares them for life.
Every time you are not able to allow love, it reveals that your capacity to love has been weakened structurally by some thing. It reveals more your character than the limitation you identified in your child.
When you pay attention to your child’s negative behaviors you cannot experience the wave of love. Making your child do something they do not want to do is a contradiction of love.
There is no such thing as correcting your child without first correcting yourself. Correcting your child is easy and correcting yourself is difficult. You are responsible for your own reactions. You are responsible for your own weakness not your child’s.
Correcting yourself first is the quickest way to increase your love frequency. By correcting your own mistakes your child will see it and begin the process of self-correction. Unless you do something that stifles the flow of love, your relationship will thrive to great heights.
Your relationship with your child is an emotional journey. Find your emotional balance early on in your relationship. Remove all contradictions from the relationship with yourself and let love be your number one priority.