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The mental and emotional factors governing the parent-child relationship are fundamental for understanding the psychology of loving your child.

The mind is the processing software for both parent and child’s behavior. The mind is an invisible phenomenon that perceives, thinks, recognizes, experiences and reacts to the environment.

It requires a lot of thinking (mind) about the subject of loving your child before manifestation can take place. As a parent “thinket” in their heart so are they.

Your mind must be protected at all cost. Limit your sugar and caffeine intake. Reduce your stress level, exercise, drink plenty of water, detox often and get adequate sleep so as to increase the power of your mind for loving your child.

The emotional mind is a state of feeling. Emotions are impulses to act. Learning and practicing emotional intelligence allows parents the ability to self-direct impulsive behaviors in a loving direction.

The ability to distinguish between a loving thought and an unloving feeling toward your child is foundational for effective parenting. Emotions are different from thoughts. Emotions lead to actions.

It is the parent’s responsibility to self-direct and self-monitor their own emotions toward themselves and their child. Your emotions belong to you alone and no one has the power to make you feel anything (including your child).

Without intelligent self-direction and monitoring, emotions naturally lead to a habit of reactivity. Reacting to your child’s behavior reflect a parent’s inability to monitor their own behavior. Responding reflects a parent’s ability to process the thoughts about their child’s behavior with full understanding (visual mind) when applying the psychology of loving their child.



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Life is a never-ending series of sounds. In order to know children from the inside out, parents must learn to hear their child’s love sound. Listening to your child’s love sound is key for experiencing a powerful and healthy relationship.

Purposefully listening to your child’s love sounds should be with the intention of learning about your child’s inner world. Listen for what makes them happy, what makes them sad, what inspires them or what drives them.

Think of listening to your child’s love sound as a quality control of your relationship. Failure to listen is costly and will erase any trust you’ve built. Paying attention is invaluable and has the potential to increase the quality of relationship you exchange between each other.

Hearing is the act of perceiving sound. Listening, however, is a conscious choice. According to research, we remember 25 to 50 percent of what we hear. Listening for your child’s love sounds takes concentration and effort so that you will be able to process the perception of sounds being vibrated on the love frequency.

When your child’s behavior takes you by surprise, listen attentively to the sounds being vibrated and ask yourself incisive questions to quickly move out of a frequency with limitations.

Nothing in this world compares to the ability to hear your child’s love sounds. The power of love holds all power, and only in love will you receive the resources to take care of all your emotional needs to connect with your child successfully.

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Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it flows the issues of life. The heart is the source from which we do everything. It is the center of your being and the very core of who you are.

Your heart includes your emotions, images, intellect and your thoughts (inner self). Your heart is the self you are talking to when you talk to yourself. It is who you are at your deepest level of parenting.

It is with the heart, parents think. It is where you put your highest thoughts about your relationship with yourself and your child. No matter how many challenges you face, your heart will stand firm on your highest and dominant thoughts.

If your highest and dominant thoughts about your child are negative and destructive, your heart will hold onto it until those thoughts come to life or until you replace them with healthy thoughts for empowering your child’s growth and development.

Your heart is the real you. It is what you would do were there no restraints or consequence. You hold your deepest commitments and promises in your heart about yourself as a parent and about your child’s development.

In your heart your child will find answers to what you stand for, what you would give up to spend quality time with them and how much love you have available to share.

The journey of parenting isn’t easy. And even though you fail, lose your patience and fall at times on your journey, there must be a desire to change, to do better, to make amends and be more loving to yourself and your child. You have the power to love your child with a healthy heart. You were created for such a time as this!


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Not all visions about your child will be good. Some parents have tunnel vision (focusing on small and insignificant issues with their children). Some have vision of despair (seeing only the negative about their child’s existence, never the positive).

Every parent’s eyes are different and so are the types of vision they have about their children. Understanding the process for the changes that take place during your child’s development can protect the vision you have for your child during their lifetime.

20/20 vision is a term used to express the clarity or sharpness of vision measured at a distance of 20 feet. Vision is about foresight and insight. To have sight without vision is worst than being blind.

20/20 does not mean perfect vision.   All successful parents operate from vision. Vision is the whole essence of your parenting life. It is the art of seeing the invisible potentials about your child. Without the ability to visualize creative goals for your child’s advancement and how to achieve those goals, very little of importance will accomplish.

Parents are desperately in need of an elevated vision about their child. Greater goals (what can be done) and greater objectives (how it can be done) are necessary to eliminate blindness about your child’s development.

Your vision needs to be great.

For example: 1. To increase my child’s love frequency every year

                         2. To expand my child’s capacity to lead with inner power

Your vision needs specific action steps.

For example:

1. To increase child’s love frequency every year

                         a. Read one book monthly on the subject of “Love” and apply one        

                         positive example to yourself then to your child.

                         b. Connect with a mentor or a coach with the ability to increase your                

                          love frequency, making it easier to share with your child.

2. To expand child’s capacity to lead with inner power

                         a. Enroll child in leadership development classes online and offline

                         b. Connect your child with a mentor strong in effective leadership and                                 balance


Your vision needs faith.

-The fight to see is a fight to believe. Faith in your child’s ability to operate at their highest love frequency will be one of the greatest fights in your relationship. Stand strong in faith, knowing that greatness lives in you.

Your vision needs boldness.

-Boldness based on hope and emotional strength is yours for the asking. Preparing your child to speak up at home in a safe and secure environment will help with building their emotional strength.

Your vision needs persistence.

- Always abound, knowing that your parenting is not in vain. Not losing heart, for you will reap a harvest in due time. Do not be discouraged when your child’s behavior does not line up with your vision. Increase your patience during this season and wait for your harvest.

-Many visions are never realized because parents give up too soon on their children. Lift up your eyes and love your child with a 20/20 vision, for he/she is ready to receive all you have invested in yourself over the years.


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Love is at the core of successful parenting. It is highest emotional state of mind that supersedes all other emotions. Therefore, to master the art of loving your child with skill, you will need to master being in a constant state of love with yourself and others.


As the world’s most sought after remedy, “Love” must be developed in your inner being as a practical skill that can be cultivated and applied to produce an experience of inexpressible euphoria with your child.


As the greatest and most powerful force known to man, love is an art, just like music, painting or any profession. To master any subject matter, you would need to study the principles. To master love, you will need to study the principles for loving your child as a skill.


Study to show yourself approved as a parent. Read up on the mechanics of love. Learn about the discipline of the highest emotional frequency on the planet. Understand how love affects your thoughts, your mind, your body and your parenting style.


Your true self demands an investigation of your ability to expand love to your child. Identify and recognize the depth, the height, the length and the width of love in every aspect of your relationship together. Be diligent in running after the power of love, with the ability to add extra peace to ease all your pain.


With the understanding that both parent and child are on the journey of love, both will need to become aware of the steps necessary for mastering the art of love. Welcome love on your journey. Allow love to be your teacher and guide.


The art of loving your child is the only true reality. Nothing else matters!




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Your child’s digestive system does not absorb food, it absorb nutrients. Emotional imbalance is the number one result of children who are deficient in love. Your child’s ability to express love to themselves and others plays a critical role in their digestive system. An unhealthy digestive system can contribute to your child’s negative behavior.

Digestion is important for breaking down your child’s food into nutrients, which the body uses for energy, growth and cell repair. Digestion begins in the mouth with chewing and ends in the small intestine. Your child’s hormone and nerve regulator control their digestive process.

Food cannot be digested or assimilated when your child is feeling fearful, worried, stressed, or anxious.

Some triggers that may upset your child’s digestive system include:

* Unresolved Situations

* Recurrent Stress

* Victim Mindset

* Difficulty saying “no” to the demands from others

* Sudden loss or fear of future loss

It’s not just what your child is eating, it is also how they are feeling during the process.   Negative emotional attachment to food can disrupt your child’s digestive system causing anxiety to rise.

Your child’s food choice and the amount they eat are connected to their emotional frequency. The lower your child’s emotional frequency, the more junk they are attracted to.  High fiber and enrolling your child in a health and fitness program will promote healthy digestion.

Eating “on the run” (in the car or on the way to school) causes stress for your child’s digestive system. A stressed digestive system is incapable of assimilation. Using food the wrong way is a cry for help in communicating that you and your child are unworthy of being loved.

Overeating is chiefly caused by emotions. Food for the overeater becomes an escape from dissatisfaction with life.   Love your children enough to teach them how food must be used as fuel and nutrient for the body, not as an emotional slave.

Never give your child food when they are emotionally upset, watching television or in any situation that may give rise to intense emotions.

A child who consistently eats sugary filled foods does this in an effort to escape a false emotional high, which the non-foods themselves are helping to create.

Food is digested properly at its highest potential when your child allow love to enter their life. Invest in your child’s health by sharing with them how loving themselves can improve their digestive system and behavior.





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Unaware of their plight, millions of parents are being seduced by emotional pain. According to research, the fear of being sick (mind dominated by irrational thoughts and action) is the fifth most common phobia.

Millions of parents are living with the fear of being sick. According to research, health has become America’s number one desire. This is why billions of dollars is being spent on health.

The fear of being sick is a soul issue. Emotional pain can only be healed through receiving and giving love. Many parents refusing to connect with their child through love will often stay untreated for years until something happens to trigger the fear.

The Medical science research says that emotions such as fear, sorrow, jealousy, envy, hate, frustration and resentments are responsible for the majority of our sickness in America. Allow your child to bring healing to your troubled mind. Allow your child’s love to eliminate the number one health disease (mental) from your life.

According to research some common symptoms connected to fear of sickness include; fear of smelling sick or seeing someone being sick, avoiding eating out because of fear of food poisoning, avoiding hospitals, doctors, surgeries, avoiding pregnancy because of the possibility of morning sickness, worrying about everything, raised anxiety in Autumn because of the increased risked of bugs, being excessively concerned about hygiene, hand washing, disinfecting and bleaching, raised anxiety when reading about sickness or seeing something on the television about sickness, avoiding foreign travel because of a risk of getting food poisoning, avoiding eating in public and panic at the first mention in the media of a virus.

Being emotionally sick is more dangerous than physical sickness. Upset mind equals sick body. Sickness is in the soul. Doctors can help your body fight disease, but only love can heal your emotional disease. Lack of love is suicide in slow motion.

60 to 100% of all diseases come from troubled emotions. Tension in the mind will produce serious disease in the body. You need your child’s love daily to bring you back to alignment. Welcome the opportunity to express true love in your communication, in your discipline, in your leadership and with your guidance of your child’s daily activities.

The fight against emotional disease and the silent killer stress can be quickly removed through experiencing true love with your child. Love is the best medicine for any kind of wound and can heal all emotional diseases.

Imagine, the healing you have been waiting for all these years, is right in your home. When you allow love to visit you, it will reach beyond your child’s negative behavior, your circumstances and your insecurities. Healing awaits you now! Just receive it.



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